Many people don’t realize that the first step to creating abundance comes from understanding your emotional blocks around money. In my last blog, “Abundance is Your Birthright,” I shared 13 money blocks and how they manifest in our lives, especially for those with a strong Martyr Archetype. This time, we’re shining a light on the emotional blocks and limiting beliefs of the Innocent Archetype.
Why Understanding Emotional Blocks is Crucial
When you understand your emotional blocks around money it will reveal limiting beliefs about money. Money blocks are often subconscious and deeply rooted in our past experiences. They influence our financial decisions and can hinder our ability to attract abundance. By recognizing and addressing these emotional blocks, you can transform your financial mindset and open the door to greater prosperity.
The Four Parts of Your Emotional Money Story
- Events: What you experienced with money.
- Messages: What people said about it.
- Feelings: The emotional tone, even when nothing was said.
- Meaning: How we interpret events, messages, and feelings.
A great way to dive into your emotional money story is by sketching out a Financial Genogram. It’s like a family tree that shows how money impacted your family members. This tool can be eye-opening, helping you see the financial patterns and attitudes that have shaped your life.
Common Emotional Blocks and Limiting Beliefs About Money
- Fear: Fear often paralyzes us, causing procrastination and abandonment of our goals. Fear stands for ‘false evidence appearing real’. With the Innocent Archetype, the primary fear is abandonment. Visualizing success and creating vision boards can help clarify goals and diminish fear.
- Trusting Others Too Much: The Innocent is very trusting, often relying on others for financial support. It’s important to learn that you have the power within you to achieve your desires and make positive changes.
- Repressed Feelings: Repressing feelings and not standing up for yourself can lead to a sense of powerlessness. Expressing your feelings is crucial for feeling supported and empowered.
- Happy-Go-Lucky Attitude: Many happy-go-lucky people are people-pleasers, masking their struggles. Prioritize yourself and avoid the trap of constantly pleasing others.
- Non-Confrontational Behavior: Everyone has a voice, regardless of their financial contribution to the household. You don’t need permission to express your opinions and make decisions.
- Desire to Be Rescued: You have everything you need to create a great life. You might need to acquire new skills, but you’re capable of making decisions that lead to financial education and awareness.
- Anxiety Around Money: Anxiety around money is common. Understanding your money behaviors and becoming financially literate can reduce stress and anxiety.
- Feeling Powerless: Feeling powerless often stems from unconscious beliefs. By consciously addressing these beliefs, you can regain control and empower yourself.
- Indecisiveness: Making decisions, especially financial ones, requires taking control. A clear plan can help you take decisive actions, even in the face of challenges.
Practical Steps to Overcome Emotional Blocks About Money
- Identify Patterns: Look for recurring themes and attitudes in your financial history.
- Acknowledge Emotions: Understand the feelings associated with these patterns without judgment.
- Create New Beliefs: Replace limiting money beliefs with empowering ones.
- Educate Yourself: Increase your financial literacy to make informed decisions.
- Communicate: Talk openly about money to break the cycle of silence and fear.
Engaging with Your Financial Emotions
Engaging with your financial emotions is not just about identifying problems; it’s also about celebrating strengths and learning from past successes. For instance, if you have a history of entrepreneurial spirit in your family, draw inspiration from that. Understanding both the positive and negative aspects of your financial heritage can help you build a balanced and healthy relationship with money.
Ready to Discover Your Emotional Blocks and Limiting Beliefs Around Money?
Ready to uncover the secrets of your money type and the limiting beliefs that cause emotional blocks around money in your life? Take our Money Quiz today and gain valuable insights into your relationship with money. Understanding your Money Archetype can empower you to heal your emotional block around money. Click here to take the quiz and start transforming your financial future now!